Well… that’s not entirely true. Some things in life come easy, and that’s when you know it’s where you’re supposed to be. If it feels natural. If you feel like you belong. Like a good laugh, or a good conversation with a friend. Or the moment when you first meet someone, and it seems like you’ve known each other from a time long ago that you just get along so well. The same may be said for the opposite – when getting along is just so difficult that you know you’re not meant to be in each other’s lives.
But why do people still say “nothing good comes easy” with some things?
How do you distinguish between an obstacle to overcome and a wall blocking the way because it’s not meant for you? How do you know when to fight for it and when to give up?